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Why Codependents Enable Others
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Why Codependents Enable Others

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The Difference Between Coaching & Therapy
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The Difference Between Coaching & Therapy

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Navigating Grief: A Personal (Messy) Reflection
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Navigating Grief: A Personal (Messy) Reflection

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What The East Coast Taught Me About Life
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What The East Coast Taught Me About Life

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Anxious Attachment & Letting go
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Anxious Attachment & Letting Go 

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The Pain of Being in the In-Between
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The Pain of Being in the In-Between

It all begins with an idea.

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What Am I Really Hungry For?
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What Am I Really Hungry For?

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Do You Have a Scarcity or Abundant Mindset?
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Do You Have a Scarcity or Abundant Mindset?

Do you have a scarcity or abundant mindset?

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Jess Phillips is master’s level clinician and attachment coach helping women overcome relationship obsession; gain confidence in who they are; and help them be rid of insecurity through her signature, online 10-week Secure-Self Attachment Program.

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January 8th, 2007 

19 years sober today and it’s hard to believe. 

That picture was taken outside of my (hopefully) last rehab. I was lost, had a terrible attitude, and felt hopeless when it came to my future. 

A life without drugs and alcoh
I work with a lot of clients who are stuck in cycles of over-giving, obsessing about their partners needs, or who pride themselves on being selfless while in a relationship with more of a taker. 

Unfortunately, none of these traits actually mirror t
I get a lot of phone calls and messages from people telling me they feel ‘crazy’ in their relationships, and that they don’t understand why they are so high-functioning in all areas of their life except when it comes to their romant
Many clients ask me ‘How can I start setting boundaries without feeling so guilty?’ 

The truth is, if you’re not used to standing up for yourself, boundary setting will come with some guilt attached in the beginning; and it’s